Why don't you call her bf and go together as a united front? I know that sounds amazingly strange but it will keep her from making a move on you and enforce a boundary. Don't forget, he is still her bf. How would you feel if the rolls were reversed?
This is the fucked up part...the roles WERE reversed. It's a complicated situation. She and Justin were married, and they divorced a few years ago. They were separated, but Jenny filed for divorce after she met me, and we started dating. Then, when Jenny and I got divorced she cheated on me with Justin (the ex-husband). So yeah...I've been on the other side.
I don't know how Justin and I are friendly after that.
She left me because she said she was still in love with him, but now she claims she's still in love with me. It's like she only wants what she can't have.
She is going to flip flop whenever she feels like it. I'm sorry you and your emotions are involved. She wants you now because she made a mistake dating him but then when things are good between you two, he'll be there to sweep her off her feet again. Can we please avoid this continuous cycle. PLEASE!!!
I'm sarah88bella. You can message me anytime you want. I see to be glued to my laptop lately. So YOU can make the first move if you ever want to talk through there! :D
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Date: 2008-08-13 05:06 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-08-13 05:13 am (UTC)I don't know how Justin and I are friendly after that.
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Date: 2008-08-13 05:30 am (UTC)I'm not on at the moment though.
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