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[xxmadsenxx]

Sometimes I still miss my ex-wife, even though I'm with Annie now and I love her. It feels kind of wrong. I think a part of me is always going to love Jenny though. I don't think I'll ever be entirely over her.

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[typicalartist.livejournal.com]

I'm always afraid of the same thing about my boyfriend. I always wonder if he'll still love his exwife even though he claims to love me more than he ever loved her.
It's heartbreaking, but truth should be told.

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

That's understandable. I sometimes felt that way when I was with Jenny. That didn't turn out so well though haha. Chances are that he really does love you more though. They're exes for a reason.

[typicalartist.livejournal.com]

She's his ex because she left him because "she wasn't ready to be a wife".
That makes it a little more complex than him leaving her. Hope everything works out with you and Annie. And get over Jenny, it'll really cut your girl deeply if she finds out you still love her.

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

Oh ok. I can see why that would be a difficult thing for you. Jenny left me too, to get back with her ex.

Thank you. I hope things work out too. I'll try to get over her, but it's easier said than done. I don't want to hurt Annie though.

[sexcursion.livejournal.com]

I know for a fact that if Jace and I ever broke up... I would always always always miss him. No matter what. I know there will never be someone as amazing him. Ever.

I dont know how people get over a broken heart and move on from being with someone for so long. It seems damn near impossible to ever move on from someone you're so madly deeply in love with...

*shrug*

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

Yeah...I don't think I have really moved on as much as I tell myself I have moved on.

[sexcursion.livejournal.com]

do you think thats fair to yourself?

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

Probably not. If anything, it's probably not fair to Annie.

[sexcursion.livejournal.com]

Well, I say always put yourself first... although its not fair to her- you should be more concerned about yourself, I think. You're the only one you have at the end of the day, so always take care of yourself first.

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

I don't really know what I'd do about it though. I can't just make myself get over her. Hopefully time will help.

I probably shouldn't be in a relationship already, but I DO love her, so I want to be.

[sexcursion.livejournal.com]

Wanting to be and being ready to be are two completely different things. Needing more time to get over your ex wouldn't discount your love for Annie, and if she is the one- everything will work out in the end.

[xxmadsenxx.livejournal.com]

That's true. I don't know that ending this relationship would help anything though. It might just make me feel worse. Plus, like I said, I WANT to be with her, even though I may not be ready. I know there's a difference between the two, but it's hard to decide what's best, and what I actually need.

[o-annie-o.livejournal.com]

Don´t judge over yourself and don´t have a bad conscience. It will take time I guess. Especially because you have a son with her, that will always connect you to her.
And it´s not that you are just using Annie or something like that, you love her.

[chokedblue.livejournal.com]

Even after years of being with someone else or not being with a person. There's still going to be a place in your heart that has them there...

*hugs*

[t-mak.livejournal.com]

Well sometimes you always have a place for people you have loved in your life, whether you dont love them anymore or if you do.
Its different if you are still IN love with her. But to love someone and lose them...you never stop loving them.
Before my dad married my mom he was married to another woman who died in a car accident. He still goes to her grave on her birthday and still gets flowers for her. My mom understands...Thats his first wife. Theres always a place in your heart for more.