Hey, I dont know why im even on LJ right now. i must be bored. I deleted my journal (ally_123, not sure if you will remember me or not) Guys never know when to say i love you. some do it too soon, some do it too fast. Personally, i wait until the guy says it before i respond...cos im too chicken to be the first one. But really, if you have been friends for a while and sorta dating then its not going to be a deal breaker or anything. Good Luck!
well, I got into a bit of trouble, legal and family (i don't speak to them anymore) and i got married. I just felt like i didnt need it anymore and i didnt want people i know reading it (my brother had apparently found it). so yeah, delete.
You are like a year older than me and I have been married for 7 years, so I might not be the one to say this, but if you don't let out what you feel when you feel, it will be too late. Life brings pain and suffering and if telling someone you love them is wrong, then what is right? If she freaks out, then she doesn't understand that love is a good thing, not something to be feared.
To clarify, it's similar to how I fell for my ex-wife. We became really good friends first, and then it blossomed into something else. That's what has happened with Annie. I definitely love her.
Well then she probably already knows and is waiting for you to tell her. You must open up and be honest about ALL your feelings for her and talk about them.
I couldn´t imagine what´s wrong about saying it. You seem to know her for a while now, first you were friends, now you are in a relationship. It´s not that you met her only two weeks ago or something like that. Maybe she´s waiting for you to say it... Well, in the end - do what you heart tells you to do!
Just thought I would tell you I added you. You seem interesting enough.
As far as the I love yous go... if you feel it just come out and say it. I dont think there is a certain time limit that needs to go by to say it- if you truly 100% feel you love her- dont hold back.. let her know.
Long Time!
Date: 2008-03-07 08:08 am (UTC)Guys never know when to say i love you. some do it too soon, some do it too fast.
Personally, i wait until the guy says it before i respond...cos im too chicken to be the first one. But really, if you have been friends for a while and sorta dating then its not going to be a deal breaker or anything.
Good Luck!
Re: Long Time!
Date: 2008-03-07 08:28 pm (UTC)It seems like most girls tend to wait until the guy says it. I just don't want to say it too soon. :\
Re: Long Time!
Date: 2008-03-07 08:29 pm (UTC)Re: Long Time!
Date: 2008-03-07 10:28 pm (UTC)I just felt like i didnt need it anymore and i didnt want people i know reading it (my brother had apparently found it). so yeah, delete.
Re: Long Time!
Date: 2008-03-08 03:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-07 12:35 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-07 08:28 pm (UTC)love or lust.
Date: 2008-03-07 07:58 pm (UTC)Re: love or lust.
Date: 2008-03-07 08:28 pm (UTC)Re: love or lust.
Date: 2008-03-07 08:33 pm (UTC)Re: love or lust.
Date: 2008-03-07 08:42 pm (UTC)Re: love or lust.
Date: 2008-03-07 09:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-08 11:20 am (UTC)Well, in the end - do what you heart tells you to do!
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Date: 2008-03-09 03:42 am (UTC)As far as the I love yous go... if you feel it just come out and say it. I dont think there is a certain time limit that needs to go by to say it- if you truly 100% feel you love her- dont hold back.. let her know.
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Date: 2008-03-11 02:59 pm (UTC)u really should !!